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menjawab pertanyaan sebelumnya pada part1, when we finally try to muffle our emotion and we feel that " well i cant help it, its so god damn hard" what do we do next? apologizing yep, you can start to apologize yourself and anyone whole-heartedly. By acquiescing everything which had already happened in your life, your life buden will be so mild and even you can make it burdenless. i do realize that some of you will think that "well it is easy if u think it theoritically, but it is so hard to be appied realistically". well, if you say so, trust e it wont works for you no matter how hard you try. believe it, do it, feel it. PS: harap dimaklumi jika pembaca menemukan beberapa grammatical errors dalam tulisan ini

redam redam redam.... pertanyaan yang pertama terlintas adalah: apa yang mesti di redam coba? well one of the things that have to be muffle is the anger,,the emotion... pembaca sekalian, dalam suatu hubungan ada kalanya kita bersitegang satu sama lain.. that is the moment when the EGO, our EGO, showed up.. so girls and boys, that is the time for you to chill yourself up.. karena kalo kamu ga ngeredamin emosi kamu ga akan selese (klasik bgt solusinya)... tapi walopun klasik banget teorinya n smua orang tau tetep aja banyak yang sulit-ga bisa- and bahkan males buat brusaha ngelakuin hal itu.. kemampuan untuk ngeredam emosi pribadi bisa jadi salah satu hal ter-krusial dalam sebuah relationship. apapun bentuk relationshipnya. kemampuan meredam tersebut tentu aja ga cuma ngeredam emosi diri sendiri tapi juga ngeredamin emosi pasangan... sebagai contoh: dalam suatu keadaan pasanganmu lg ada masalah and it is not because of you, dan dia lagi dalam keadaan yang emotionally unstable... saat it...

hidup itu pilihan. that's why we have to take a side, i mean make a decision to choose somthin. well, kalo kita hubungin antara pilihan sama relationship, it is totally inseparable. seringkali dalam sebuah hubungan manusia dihadapkan pada pilihan, yup and it is usually the hard one. saking sulitnya until we feel so much dilemma in our mind, there are so much considerations spinning around in our head. we usually being confused because there is a crash between our feeling and logic. perassan vs logika.. which one is the winner? the winner is the one who can combine those things. can you?

independency is an important thing for you... do not let yourself to be bergantung sama kekasih kalian.. ingat, siap dapat mesti siap kehilangan... mayoritas cowok bakal ngerasa bangga banget kalonsampe dia ditangisin kepergiannya dan di "beratin" bgt sama cewek... it will make your bargaining power as a woman decrease... so, ga usah di abotin(di beratin .red)... why?knapa? karena ga semua cowok itu juga beratin kalian.... so, kalo emang dah terbukti cowok itu "mbelani" bgt, tulus banget sama kalian baru deh..silahkan kalo kalian mau "mberatin dia.... remember "a good boy for a good girl" now, the question is: "are you good enough as a human being?"